3 months before getting married, what should I do?

[kidd_grinder]

Hey guys! after 5 or 6 months out of poker, I am back here in Manila for more.. Not sure what I want to do in my life just before the big day.. The Subject says it all.. YES I AM GETTIN MARRIED...!

Its hard for me to think that I am gettin married just after havin a baby girl.. It maybe too much for me to bear, but all I can do is to prepare for the worse! haha.. Gettin hook up with only one girl FOREVER is not my thing.. But I guess time will come for each and everyone of us that you will find this one person worth livin and dyin for for the rest of your life.. 

So here I am, just before gettin married, is planning to have my OWN time for at least 2 to 3 months of just simply enjoying myself using poker as the  number one priority..

Me and My fiance is somewhat okay financially, having a small online business helps me a lot from zero to someone who is capable of having my own family..

So here's the thing, I have about 30k bankroll for live poker games. I am planning to have fun and make some money of course while playing poker and having fun in this wild wild world! Where do u think this can take me? Any thoughts?

I hope CHAT THREAD FOUNDERS can read this.. I hope I can meet you and go out with you guys.. Coz it looks like you guys are having fun always, but Im not really sure if I can have the same standard of living that you guys have!!! Coz I am way out of your league financially! hehe...  All I want is to have some friends here who has the same goal playing poker everyday while making money and having fun..

I have been playing poker for years now, but been playing alone, grinding most of the poker houses with nobody.. So I am hoping for a change this time..

Let me know guys.. Anyone I can hook up with on live poker games, let me know..

Peace yah all...

[bOzandRe]

Hey guys! after 5 or 6 months out of poker, I am back here in Manila for more.. Not sure what I want to do in my life just before the big day.. The Subject says it all.. YES I AM GETTIN MARRIED...!

Its hard for me to think that I am gettin married just after havin a baby girl.. It maybe too much for me to bear, but all I can do is to prepare for the worse! haha.. Gettin hook up with only one girl FOREVER is not my thing.. But I guess time will come for each and everyone of us that you will find this one person worth livin and dyin for for the rest of your life.. 

So here I am, just before gettin married, is planning to have my OWN time for at least 2 to 3 months of just simply enjoying myself using poker as the  number one priority..

Me and My fiance is somewhat okay financially, having a small online business helps me a lot from zero to someone who is capable of having my own family..

So here's the thing, I have about 30k bankroll for live poker games. I am planning to have fun and make some money of course while playing poker and having fun in this wild wild world! Where do u think this can take me? Any thoughts?

I hope CHAT THREAD FOUNDERS can read this.. I hope I can meet you and go out with you guys.. Coz it looks like you guys are having fun always, but Im not really sure if I can have the same standard of living that you guys have!!! Coz I am way out of your league financially! hehe...  All I want is to have some friends here who has the same goal playing poker everyday while making money and having fun..

I have been playing poker for years now, but been playing alone, grinding most of the poker houses with nobody.. So I am hoping for a change this time..

Let me know guys.. Anyone I can hook up with on live poker games, let me know..

Peace yah all...

First of all . .As a member of the Chat Thread Gang. . . .I congratulate you sir in advance. .

Second, Its not hard to approach Pol and Egol (Chat thread Founders). .

Just message them. .or inform them . .kng kelan ka available. . madali nlng yun. .pag nag meet sched

[wewet888]

You can still have lots of fun after you are married, just ask Pol and Egol.

[Buddha23]

congrats in advance kidd you are so lucky if your fiancee allows you to play live poker if not then you will have problem....................

[welcoat]

stop
you have the mother and daughter already, why complicate matters?

normally marriage is price you pay before above.  forget about fun, start thinking about your future how you can grow and not risk existing resources- to support growing family.

marriage is no guarantee you will always be together but developing responsibilty does.

[pokereagle]

stop
you have the mother and daughter already, why complicate matters?

normally marriage is price you pay before above.  forget about fun, start thinking about your future how you can grow and not risk existing resources- to support growing family.

marriage is no guarantee you will always be together but developing responsibilty does.

01 July 2012

@kidd grinder:  I remember you kidd... made one hell of a run sa isang major metro tourney via sit n go seat pa kamo... chip leader after day 1 "something" pero gone with the wind day 2... That is poker experience for you padre...

Didiretsuhin na kita kidd grinder... read again the message of friendship welcoat... it is not "knowledge" you learn from school... Bordering on "wisdom" na po siya... wisdom is not learned in school... you get it from life experience... At pag dating sa life experience... Lamang po si welcoat aka Del...

Listen to the old guy... He may not be likeable sometimes or is it most of the times?... ngek! at wpp Del.... BUT HE MAKES SENSE...

Ngek! at wpp...

[polnkel]

You can still have lots of fun after you are married, just ask Pol and Egol.

fyi lang....  idol egol is still single n searching... 

fyi naman for idol egol....  i heard FHM tektiest for 2012 SAM PINTO is single n searching din.... hmmmm....

anyways... being married doesnt mean you cant have fun anymore....  you can have fun pero mas limitado na....

and who says having fun need to cost big money....  kalokohan yun...

[nonoyang]

stop
you have the mother and daughter already, why complicate matters?

normally marriage is price you pay before above.  forget about fun, start thinking about your future how you can grow and not risk existing resources- to support growing family.

marriage is no guarantee you will always be together but developing responsibilty does.

+1 , I absolutely agree on him. )

living life to the fullest is not having power nor money but to love and being love by someone, atleast lol

[terence69]

stop
you have the mother and daughter already, why complicate matters?

normally marriage is price you pay before above.  forget about fun, start thinking about your future how you can grow and not risk existing resources- to support growing family.

marriage is no guarantee you will always be together but developing responsibilty does.

+1 

family/life/work- balance and evaluate if you can incorporate poker then....  best wishes....

[wonderdog78]

Doesnt sound to me like you're ready to get married. If you're getting married bec of the baby girl then you're getting married for the wrong reason.

By all means, enjoy the last few months and play poker all you want, but make sure you stop as soon as you get married, unless you're making huge heaps and can justify it.

The poker lifestyle is brutal for married life, especially live poker, so you better have a good reason for being away from your family for extended periods of time.

If you can't give up the poker lifestyle and can't show much for it, it better be just a recreational once in a while thing -- otherwise save yourself the hassle and $$ of getting married.

[markie]

Doesnt sound to me like you're ready to get married. If you're getting married bec of the baby girl then you're getting married for the wrong reason.

By all means, enjoy the last few months and play poker all you want, but make sure you stop as soon as you get married, unless you're making huge heaps and can justify it.

The poker lifestyle is brutal for married life, especially live poker, so you better have a good reason for being away from your family for extended periods of time.

If you can't give up the poker lifestyle and can't show much for it, it better be just a recreational once in a while thing -- otherwise save yourself the hassle and $$ of getting married.

correct

[slazier]

You can still have lots of fun after you are married, just ask Pol and Egol.

fyi lang....  idol egol is still single n searching... 

fyi naman for idol egol....  i heard FHM tektiest for 2012 SAM PINTO is single n searching din.... hmmmm....

anyways... being married doesnt mean you cant have fun anymore....  you can have fun pero mas limitado na....

and who says having fun need to cost big money....  kalokohan yun...

agree correct i have learn my lesson on this matter extremely the hard way sabi nga doon sa amin sa probinsya bakit ka bibili ng buong baka kung pwede naman por kilo na lang hehehe

[polnkel]

You can still have lots of fun after you are married, just ask Pol and Egol.

fyi lang....  idol egol is still single n searching... 

fyi naman for idol egol....  i heard FHM tektiest for 2012 SAM PINTO is single n searching din.... hmmmm....

anyways... being married doesnt mean you cant have fun anymore....  you can have fun pero mas limitado na....

and who says having fun need to cost big money....  kalokohan yun...

agree correct i have learn my lesson on this matter extremely the hard way sabi nga doon sa amin sa probinsya bakit ka bibili ng buong baka kung pwede naman por kilo na lang hehehe

Tama ka idol....

Words of wisdom....


Y kabit Kung pwede namang FB... Ngek...wpp...

[guma]

Why do you want to spend hours sitting in a live poker room when you can sit at home with your kid and play online?

[kidd_grinder]

Doesnt sound to me like you're ready to get married. If you're getting married bec of the baby girl then you're getting married for the wrong reason.

By all means, enjoy the last few months and play poker all you want, but make sure you stop as soon as you get married, unless you're making huge heaps and can justify it.

The poker lifestyle is brutal for married life, especially live poker, so you better have a good reason for being away from your family for extended periods of time.

If you can't give up the poker lifestyle and can't show much for it, it better be just a recreational once in a while thing -- otherwise save yourself the hassle and $$ of getting married.

This one is just right on the TARGET..!! Mas ayoko naman kasi dumating sa point na ikakasal ako without lookin for myself first.. Mas mhirap kasi ung hahanapin ko ung JOY of being a SINGLE person when you are already MARRIED.. Am I right? Just ask A LOT of people.. It may not be ALL the people, but a lot of them wanted to have fun just like when they are still SINGLE..

So para sakin, why not do it today, lalo na kung allowed nman nang GF ko na gawin ko right? At least if I do something stupid, Im not doin anything that could add up to my SIN as a MARRIED MAN right?

I hope you guys can get my point at this... Not sure If I have enough reason for me to do this things or not.. But hopefully I do..

[RedAirkson]

Why do you want to spend hours sitting in a live poker room when you can sit at home with your kid and play online?

this.  online poker dads can make great babysitters.

[markie]

sa madaling salita... gawin mo na lahat habang binata ka pa..

[bosAMO]

Why do you want to spend hours sitting in a live poker room when you can sit at home with your kid and play online?

+1

[dennis padolina reyes]

goodluck sir kidd habang binata ka pa gawin mo na un maaring di mo na magawa pag kasal na kau dahil baka pag awayan nyo pa ang poker